People will lead you to believe you’re “doing too much” when you dress up, put on makeup, have your hair and nails done, and so much more. Do not feel threatened by this. Do not feel bad. You’re not doing too much, they need to be doing more. It’s time you begin being confident in yourself and say SCREW those people who think differently. Live your life for you, FORGET those people!
Here’s an excerpt from the book 31 Ways To Be More Feminine that will support your with confidence in your feminine energy:
"Practice your walk: Take small steps, walk light, and be seductive. Walking fast, looking like you are in a rush is not attractive and makes you appear more masculine.
Mean what you say: men love a woman who knows what she wants. Do not be flaky, make impulsive decisions, or consistently indecisive. Women like this often have commitment issues and are difficult for men to trust. Also, men watch women for clues on how to treat and respond to you. You want your verbal and nonverbals to add up!"
This quick excerpt is a reminder of how impactful small changes we make can be. So you with your beauty, vibrancy, elegance, smelling good, and feeling even better--ARE A THREAT to someone who doesn't love themselves. Understand that their criticism is not personal and never take it that way.
Oh, and don't forget to order the book. It's lifechanging.
Love Watley, MSW, LCSW-A, AKA The Self-Love Guru